BELOW ARE SOME FUN MONTHLY CHALLENGE IDEAS FOR YOUR CLUB.
Kiss outside the bedroom. By kiss, we mean make out. To earn a point you must kiss for at least five seconds. Who would have thought in the beginning of your relationship that this for be a challenge? Get it back, the intimacy is crazy good.
Have sex in a new place outside the bedroom. A bedroom closet, the back yard, the back seat of a car parked in the garage, the kitchen counter, there are endless places to make it fun and add some excitement.
Talk dirty in bed. Talking dirty in bed can be a lot of fun. Mild talk explaining what you want them to do to you or where you like to be touched to outright explicit raunchy sex talk, whatever you are comfortable with! There are even article online that help get the vocal intimacy in the bedroom started.
Give your partner a really nice massage. Make it an experience! Use lotion, oils, heated towels.
Date night. A restaurant, a movie theatre or your own couch, it doesn’t matter where as long as you establish with your partner ahead of time that it is a date. Therefore, full attention, no phones or social media. Life is crazy, date nights are a great opportunity to reconnect.
Compliment your partner. What does that have to do with a better sex life? Try and find out. Building that confidence is key! We get so used to our partners we forget sometimes to remind them just how wanted they are.
Sleep Naked. Sleeping naked not only feels good but it’s fun for your partner to wake up to. Plus, it makes the cuddling so much more fun.
Start in the morning. Get your partner thinking about the night as the day begins. Tell them what you want and what you are going to do come night time. A phone call or a sexy text, maybe a note left in a pocket or on a car seat, a way to get the night going all day.
Wear something sexy. A garter belt and fishnet stocking, a sexy teddy all look amazing when accompanied with a pair of high heels and a long coat.
Visit a sex store together. Most respectable sex stores have well informed employees full of ideas. Ask questions, try a new toy or some fun lotion. There are endless ideas and amazements if you have never visited one before.